How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 16:52
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Why are Trump's and Khan's experiences with authorities in the US and Pakistan similar?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Making more friends is a goal.
What one thing makes someone a very mature person?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
That's it for today.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What are some tips for a girl with low self-esteem to start dating?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What I need from you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Does not procrastinate.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.